Ugh… not again…

I started writing this July 27th … when, the previous week, we had received word that ALL domestic flights from our city to the capital were suspended. Since September 1st, however, a handful of domestic flights are once again in service. And yet an eerie silence has ruled the sky, which at one time was teeming with both domestic and international flights. At that same time (back in July) bus travel to the capital was also be suspended.

My response… I’m beginning to feel trapped. Stuck. Again.

For the thirteenth time (not exactly sure when the counting began), a nationwide Emergency Decree has been extended. From August 1st to September 30th. And then there have been regular “rumors” about when our part of the country will be reopening for tourism, when vaccines will be available, when schools can go back to in-person versus online instruction.

Ugh. Here we go again dealing with uncertainty and the feelings of dread, fear, hopelessness that accompany it…

“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life.”

Proverbs 13:12

There’s a lot of truth packed in that little proverb. I was talking with a friend in the US this morning who excitedly shared about an upcoming visit with her brother. Having something to look forward to, to plan for is proving to be such a boost to her morale! It is helping her see beyond the challenges she’s facing at work, the upheaval associated with a myriad of changes simultaneously bombarding her, the grieving of life-as-she-knew-it to something yet to be defined.

I guess that’s partly why I’m struggling. Those “looking-forward-to-it” things have been few and far between these days. Life has been a series of putting plans, desires on hold… for a LONG time now.

And yet… I think God is wanting to show me how I can incorporate glimmers of hope, so to speak, into my life. For instance, I can TAKE the INITIATIVE and get together with a friend for coffee (thankfully, cafes and restaurants ARE open!). Instead of wallowing in my frustration at not being able to visit with family (for two years already!) I can CHOOSE to be THANKFUL for zoom calls, emails, Messenger chats that are enabling us to keep in touch. I can BE HONEST with God and with others regarding how I’m really doing instead of trying to put on a bold, happy face.

Yes, I need to be honest with God, to pour out my heart — my longings, my frustrations, my fears — to Him.

What might you be able to incorporate into your life this week to combat the inevitable “hope deferred” kinds of feelings? How might you bring hope to someone else? We’re all in this thing called “Life” together…

… and together, may we have joy in the journey.

4 thoughts on “Ugh… not again…”

  1. I was riding the motorcycle over to meet a friend for lunch (yes, thankful that restaurants are open!) and I saw an airplane taking off, something I’ve not seen for a long long while. It was good to see. Truly.

    Thanks for the blog entry. As my friend sat down at the table today, I asked him how he was doing. He responded that he’s not doing well and then we talked about it. These times are difficult. I was proud of him for answering truthfully… he didn’t put on a bold, happy face.

    Suggestion… add a pic of you having coffee with someone, like Myrna!


  2. Yes, it seems like one step forward and two steps back has been our world for the past 2 years. I, too, am grateful for our weekly zoom calls and will look forward to when we can be together in person. It has been a long 2 years. In the meantime, I have to remember that God is in control and none of this has taken HIM by surprise. LYL


  3. Dear Mary,

    We’re just going to have to pray really hard that the “Son” will shine through those clouds – and that those rumors are just that- rumors! Your Father knows the desires of your heart and is able to make this Joyful Journey happen – because “nothing is too hard for him!” Jer. 32:17

    Keep the faith!

    Love and much prayer,

    Charles and Mary


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