Road trip!!!

photo credit: author

Since we haven’t lived in our home country for a LONG time, my husband and I decided to go on a road trip… one that would enable us to reconnect with family and friends who are scattered from literally one coast to the other — and lots of places in-between.

We’ve been on the road for three weeks now, and the past few days we’ve “oohed” and “ahhed” our way from Colorado to Idaho and now to Montana. The scenery is breathtaking. Awe inspiring. Overwhelming at times. My attempts to capture what my eyes are drinking in are futile — and yet I keep snapping away on my phone’s camera, trying to digitally record the sights.

With so many hours in the car, we’ve had a lot of time to talk. To listen to music. To simply stare out the window. We even started listening to War and Peace, a novel neither of us had read but figured the 60+ hours of narration would help to pass the time, especially on some of the long stretches of highway we’ve been on. 

As we’ve been driving, I’ve tried to imagine what the world looked like when it was first created. When it was perfect, unmarred by human negligence. Untainted by greed. Unspoiled by buildings and traffic. To me, even the imperfections I see are stunning in their beauty. 

I wondered out loud what God must think when we take time to marvel at His creation. Does it brings Him joy? Does He expect us to notice what He made? Does it hurts Him to see what a mess we’ve made of things due to littering, pollution, overpopulation, taking advantage of this habitat in which we live?

My husband’s response surprised me. Made me think. 

He used an analogy of someone painting or sculpting or building or writing or knitting something. Something the person put a lot of time, energy, and effort into. Something that reflects the person’s heart, interests, intentions. 

And no one notices.

No one takes the time to see — really see — what was created.

No one appreciates the effort, the skill, the love that motivated the project.

Instead… the painting was destroyed. The sculpture broken. The building torn down. The writing trashed. The knitting unraveled.

No one acknowledged the maker. 

God’s Word (aka the Bible) talks about how the heavens themselves declare or proclaim His craftsmanship, the work of His hands (Psalm 19:1). How He has displayed His splendor, His majesty, which is higher than the heavens (Psalm 8:1)! 

When I look out the window of the home where we’re staying, I see snow-covered mountains. And I am reminded of Psalm 121…

I look up to the mountains — does my help come from there? My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth!

Yep! This is quite the road trip! But one in which I’m daily being reminded that there’s a God who intentionally has made this world in which I live. A God who knows all that is happening in our world — and isn’t surprised. A God who has a plan for you and for me — a plan that ultimately is for good, His good and mine. 

And that, my friends, brings me joy in the journey of this thing called “Life!”

Retreat… necessary for survival!!!

photo credit: Cheryl Stinchcomb

Having grown up near the ocean, I LOVE all things related to the sea! Walking on the beach, swimming, sailing, water skiing (at least in my younger years) all have a way of refreshing my body and soul. So when a friend shared these incredible pictures earlier this week — and a life lesson learned from them — something resonated in my very core.

She and her family were at the beach here in Thailand (this is our hot season/summer, and so schools are on break). She shared…

I got to observe 15 species of crab this week…
Some were armoured and scary-looking, some looked soft and vulnerable, some preferred hiding in their shells to scuttling on the rocks, some colourful, some camouflaged.
All required some level of retreat for survival.

Life lesson from the rockpools —
there is space for all in this world and retreat is good!
The hermit crab should not try to live like the stone crab.
They are not made for it…
and yet still I push sometimes for the
hermit-crab people in my life to “come out” more…

Retreat is necessary for all of us,
but more for some species (people) than others.

Cheryl Stinchcomb
in “God’s Creatures in Thailand” Facebook post
April 18, 2024

The reason this resonated with me is because I sometimes find myself in a tizzy, anxious about one thing or the other; weary because of a busy schedule; becoming snippy, critical with those I’m closest to (translated: my husband!). What my soul is trying to tell my brain and my body is that I need to retreat… to take time to do something to nurture my soul. Something that can get my focus back on what is life-giving as opposed to feeling drained. Something that recharges me.

As a Christ follower, the primary way that happens is by spending time reading God’s love letter to me (aka the Bible). But in all honesty, the past few weeks I feel like what I’ve been reading has been going in one eye and out the other — completely missing my heart and soul. Instead of being recharged, my battery level has kept going down.

Cheryl’s “life lesson from the rockpools” reminded me of how Jesus — God Himself walking among man — sometimes felt the need to get away, to withdraw, to retreat.

And rising very early in the morning, while it was still dark, He departed and went out to a desolate place, and there He prayed. – Mark 1:35

Perceiving then that they were about to come and take Him by force to make Him king [after the feeding of the 5000], Jesus withdrew again to the mountain by Himself. – John 6:15

Hmm… if Jesus needed to do this, how much more do I!?!

My “life lesson from the rockpools” is that I need to MAKE time to do things that provide “retreat” from the busyness of life, things that recharge instead of drain my energy. This doesn’t mean to forego my daily times reading the Bible, but to be intentional in doing things like writing this blog — since it is life-giving for me! Another is getting together with a friend for a heart-to-heart/below-the-surface chat. I also need to recognize the importance of planning some down time, which has a way of refreshing and renewing. Proverbs 13:12 talks about this when it says, “Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life.” In other words, having something to look forward to is also life-giving!

And that, my friends, is how I’m choosing to move forward so that I can have joy in the journey of this thing called “Life!”

By the way, if you would like to check out more of Cheryl’s adventures, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/274029857018047/?ref=share